Hi,
I’m a 64 year old newly widowed woman. I’ve decided to try to get out there and date because I am terribly lonely. My husband and I were married for 40 years and I loved him. He’s been gone for four months and I don’t miss him as much as I thought I would but I am very lonely. I have a good pension and money in the bank so I can take care of myself, I’ve taken good care of myself and I’ve had lots of men call me. I just don’t know what is appropriate at this point. My daughter thinks I am being terribly inappropriate and shouldn’t even consider dating for a year. What’s right?



Darling, you must do what is right in your heart. I think you do miss your husband (hence the loneliness) and I think you should be completely honest with why you want a man in your life right now. You should also be careful about whom you speak to about your finances. Widows are often targets for less than scrupulous people. Not that you aren’t hot, I’m just saying be careful.As for your daughter, remember, she just lost her father and is grieving. Another man in your life will be a big adjustment. It would be good to be mindful of her feelings.

Wishing you the Best-
Maggie