I think my bff and I have grown apart. We have been friends for almost 20 years and we used to have some really great times. We live over 1000 miles apart now and we have almost nothing in common. She just had her second kid and is staying home now to be with both children. It seems like lately, I find her a bit snotty. We don’t talk on the phone much but when we do it’s either about her kids or something really shallow. We seem to have grown up and in different directions. We have about the same household income but they live in a huge house with no furniture in it and drive brand new vehicles…which my husband and I think is silly. I try not to judge, though. Her husband is awfully rude and I’ve never liked him but since she married him, I’ve always been cordial. Here’s my question; do I continue this friendship?
Well. Let me just get to the point on this.
A. You are being judgmental so try harder.
B. You have grown apart-and that’s okay.
C. Why maintain a friendship with someone that you don’t really like?
It’s time to cut the purse strings on this one. People grow apart and change. Sounds like neither of you will feel a great loss. Go out and find yourself a new BFF!
Wishing you the best-
Maggie
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