Stay of My Bushes!

Dear Maggie
I have a neighbor who is always chopping my bushes. I understand if they grow over my fence that he can cut them. But I don’t understand why he leans over the fence and cuts what is on my side. I don’t know him and I’m not sure what to do.
Help!


Interesting dilemma. As far as I’m concerned, if he’s leaning over the fence, he’s on your property. And last I checked most cities have rules against fooling with your neighbors’ property, regardless of their reason. Now, how you handle this is crucial because let’s face it….you can’t pick your neighbors and for your own health, you should have a peaceful existence.
Perhaps introducing yourself is a good first step. Make a batch of cookies or banana bread and take it over. While you’re there, you could mention that you’ve noticed he’s had to do a lot of work to keep your bushes out of his yard. Offer to help him with the work or to trim more often. Be nice, you will get more flies with honey.
Good luck-
Wishing You the Best-Maggie