Gift Giving

Hello-
I have a question about my boyfriend and Christmas. This will be our second Christmas together. Last year, he got me a lot of nice things, which was great! I got him a really expensive sweater and a CD. He liked them both but I really couldn’t afford what I bought. This year, I’m facing the same problem. He makes twice the money I do. I want to be able to buy him more but I just can’t afford it. What do I do?



Sweetie. This isn’t a problem but I understand why you feel like it is. It’s okay that you can’t afford to purchase the same amount of gifts/spend the same amount on him as he can spend on you. If you’re uncomfortable with him spending more, set a limit for which each of you adhere. Or you can simply have a conversation with him explaining your feelings and going from there. Be honest with him and communicate. It’s not about the gifts at Christmas, it’s about being together and being thankful that’s the most important thing to remember.

Wishing You the Best-
Maggie