Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Fish or Cut Bait

My question is about my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for just over three years now and I’m beginning to wonder where this relationship is headed. He never mentions marriage and if I bring up the future, he simply changes the subject. He says he loves me and he’s happy living together. I want to have a family and I want to be married to the man I love before I have my first child. I’m going to be 32 next month.What should I do?

Well, this is a common question and I'll tell you there really is a simple solution. After 3 years, the man knows what he wants. He seems happy with the arrangement as is. And frankly, who can blame him? As it's said; "why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Look, I'm not going to get all old-lady on you here but before moving in with someone the marriage conversation should have happened. You are going to have to sit down and in a very loving, kind and dignified manner tell your man it's time to s**t or get off the pot.

Wishing you the best-
Maggie

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