Maggie;
There is a lady I work with that gossips constantly. I can't concentrate, it's gotten so bad. I can't even believe half the stuff she says. As soon as anyone in the office leaves, she starts talking about them! How do I get her to stop?
I despise gossips and I make it very clear that I do not want to hear nor will I be a part of gossip. I rarely have anyone come to me with gossip anymore. You teach people what they can and cannot say to you by your reaction to them. Walk away. Or tell her you don't want to hear it. If she isn't speaking to you but disturbing you, it would be appropriate to pull her off to the side and ask her to lower her voice when she is speaking to others. If she doesn't respect your wished, I would go to your boss. Gossip is immature and ridiculous. No one should have room for gossip in their lives.
Wishing You the Best-
Maggie
Friday, November 14, 2008
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